What's Your Confidence Blindspot?

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Quiz Questions

1.
How would you BEST describe what you do for work? I'm a...
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- A.
  💼 Full/Part-Time Professional
- B.
  👩‍💻 Business Owner/Entrepreneur
- C.
  🤹 Stay-At-Home Parent
- D.
  Other
2.
What's your Enneagram type?
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- A.
  Type 1: The Perfectionist
- B.
  Type 2: The Helper
- C.
  Type 3: The Achiever
- D.
  Type 4: The Individualist
- E.
  Type 5: The Investigator
- F.
  Type 6: The Loyalist
- G.
  Type 7: The Enthusiast
- H.
  Type 8: The Challenger
- I.
  Type 9: The Peacemaker
- J.
  I'm not really sure
3.
What's your BIGGEST marker of personal success?
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- A.
  ❤️ Being liked and appreciated by others
- B.
  🏆 Achieving my goals and being the best at what I do
- C.
  💸 Financial independence, abundance, and security
- D.
  🌈 Making a deep and meaningful impact
- E.
  ⏰ Freedom to do whatever I want, whenever I want
4.
How do you USUALLY handle conflict?
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  🦠 I avoid conflict like the plague
- B.
  😎 I keep it calm, cool, and collected
- C.
  🥵 I try to please everyone
- D.
  🌧 I cry no matter what I'm feeling
- E.
  💪 I face conflict head-on and stand my ground
5.
How do you BEST like to receive love?
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- A.
  ⏰ Quality time: Let's make pizza together
- B.
  ❤️ Physical Touch: Feed me pizza
- C.
  💬 Words of affirmation: Tell me you like my pizza
- D.
  🧽 Acts of Service: Clean up after we make pizza
- E.
  🎁 Gifts: Buy me pizza
6.
How do you MOST OFTEN relieve stress/overwhelm?
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  🍷 Pour a glass of wine + turn on a show
- B.
  🏋️‍♀️ Hit a sweaty workout session
- C.
  📱 Scroll Instagram, Facebook, and TikTok
- D.
  🌿 Journal, meditate, or go out in nature
- E.
  🤷‍♀️ Push through it
7.
Which resonates the MOST and makes you think, "I feel seen"?
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  🚚 I thrive when checking things off my list but rarely take time to actually celebrate before trucking on to the next thing
- B.
  🔮 I worry a lot about what's going to happen in the future, regardless of how things are going currently
- C.
  📅 I tend to say yes and overcommit to things because I get flustered in the moment and feel like I can't say no
- D.
  👀 I care about what other people think of me so much that most days I'd rather just play it safe than go after what I want
- E.
  🤷 I have a hard time making and keeping friends because people don't really understand me
8.
If you could have ONE wish, which of these would you choose?
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  🌟 Feeling confident in my decisions without overthinking or second-guessing myself
- B.
  👋 Overcoming the negative voice inside my head and letting go of what other people think
- C.
  🏅 Knowing my self worth and who I am outside of my achievements
- D.
  🙅‍♀️ Knowing how to say no and set boundaries instead of giving in to people pleasing
- E.
  😎 Being comfortable in my own skin

Quiz Outcomes

1.
Jessica Day - New Girl
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"Gave me confidence, got you confidence."Your confidence shines through with your quirky and unique as f*ck personality, just like the OG Craigslist roommate, Jessica Day. You're not afraid to be yourself, but sometimes you prioritize saying yes and pleasing others over setting boundaries and protecting your energy. (Not to mention, you can't take a compliment to save your life, can you?)Raise your hand if you...☑️ Are always the first to volunteer, even if you’re too busy☑️ Sometimes interpret feedback as criticism☑️ Get burned out and overwhelmed easily☑️ Associate your worthiness with your ability to help others☑️ Have a seriously hard time saying ‘no’☑️ Know you could be better about setting boundaries☑️ Struggle to make decisions for yourself☑️ Know you deserve better but still have uncertainty☑️ Feel like you can’t do anything rightYour Confidence Blindspot:✨ People Pleasing ✨If you raised your hand at all, chances are pretty damn good you could use some me time and some practice learning to say “NO”.Like Jess, that little voice inside your head just wants to make everyone happy—even if the results of that are at your own expense. This is your permission to embrace your individuality and continue being authentically yourself (however that looks) while also working on establishing and communicating healthy boundaries.Remember: When you say 'YES' to everyone, you're saying 'NO' to yourself and the things that truly matter to you.Awareness is Everything...MEET YOUR COACHHey friend, I’m Megan Reed: your Life + Business Confidence Coach, EFT + NLP Practitioner, Clinical Hypnotherapist, and Reiki Energy Healer here to help you own your weird and unleash your main character energy. I'm the founder of the Creating Confidence® Society, and I'm on a mission to help you discover the magic of who you truly are so you can ditch your inner critic, get out of your own way, and unapologetically achieve your wildest dreams—whatever they may be.After a few years of growing my coaching business, I started to see some common themes that were sabotaging my students' and clients' personal and business growth. (AKA your confidence blindspot.) These blindspots were standing in between them and the life they were dreaming of.And they're in your way, too, aren't they?Clients come into my world with a deep knowing that they were meant to have more, do more, and be more, and it’s my mission to help guide you to your favorite version of yourself—one boundary, breakthrough, or transformation at a time.I'm your subconscious mind whisperer here to call you out on your bullshit.You're tired of living your life on autopilot, aren't you?IF YOU’RE LOOKING FOR HEALING, SUPPORT, AND ACCOUNTABILITY, YOU’RE IN THE RIGHT PLACE.I’ve got you.Let's Dig Deeper...THREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU ON YOUR JOURNEY-1-Love having a good time + need a little motivational cheerleader in your pocket? Check out my Instagram. There, you'll find a ton of free and empowering content to help you work through many different facets of personal development—including boundaries, your subconscious mind, perfectionism, and imposter syndrome.-2-Looking for a community to help you next-level your self-awareness and create unshakable self-confidence? Join the Creating Confidence Society. The Society is a safe space for women to come together, learn about themselves, build self love, heal, grow, and gain the confidence to go after what they truly want in life + business. It's a club for connection, inspiration, accountability, education, healing, and support—all the crucial ingredients to cultivating your most confident self. -3-Don’t even know where to begin but you know you’re ready for coaching and healing? Visit my website to discover which modalities will help you get out of your own way so you can pursue what matters most to you.Over the next few days, I'll be sharing more with you in your inbox to help ignite your transformation! In the meantime, find the feedback, support, and tools you need to cultivate a balanced + confident life FOR YOU inside the Society. 👇
2.
Phoebe Buffay - Friends
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"Confidence would be perfection."Your confidence is as magnetic as Phoebe Buffay's—quiet and subdued—but always drawing people towards you with your celebratory energy. You’re a truly loyal supporter, and you've been known to challenge those around you to be the best versions of themselves.You're an open and genuine person, but deep down, you find yourself craving more real and authentic connections where you can feel comfortable being your true self instead of just keeping things on the surface because you're afraid you might be a little *too* weird.Let’s play “Check the boxes!”Do you…☑️ Have a difficult time making decisions☑️ Value external opinions over your own☑️ Frequently second guess yourself☑️ Shy away from speaking up for yourself and your needs☑️ Struggle with self worth☑️ Dim your light to blend in☑️ Dwell on your mistakes☑️ Dismiss your previous achievements☑️ Compare yourself to others☑️ Avoid conflict at all costsYour Confidence Blindspot:✨ Self-Doubt ✨If you checked three or more of these boxes, chances are real good you doubt yourself enough that it’s holding you back from making deep, authentic, and meaningful connections with others.Like Phoebe, that little voice inside your head just wants to fit in and be seen + loved for who you truly are—not who you feel like you're *supposed* to be.Remember: It's safe to be your true self when fostering new (and old) connections. This is where the real-deal, got-your-back, authentic magic happens. People want to know YOU—the real you.Awareness is Everything...MEET YOUR COACHHey friend, I’m Megan Reed: your Life + Business Confidence Coach, EFT + NLP Practitioner, Clinical Hypnotherapist, and Reiki Energy Healer here to help you own your weird and unleash your main character energy. I'm the founder of the Creating Confidence® Society, and I'm on a mission to help you discover the magic of who you truly are so you can ditch your inner critic, get out of your own way, and unapologetically achieve your wildest dreams—whatever they may be.After a few years of growing my coaching business, I started to see some common themes that were sabotaging my students' and clients' personal and business growth. (AKA your confidence blindspot.) These blindspots were standing in between them and the life they were dreaming of.And they're in your way, too, aren't they?Clients come into my world with a deep knowing that they were meant to have more, do more, and be more, and it’s my mission to help guide you to your favorite version of yourself—one boundary, breakthrough, or transformation at a time.I'm your subconscious mind whisperer here to call you out on your bullshit.You're tired of living your life on autopilot, aren't you?IF YOU’RE LOOKING FOR HEALING, SUPPORT, AND ACCOUNTABILITY, YOU’RE IN THE RIGHT PLACE.I’ve got you.Let's Dig Deeper...THREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU ON YOUR JOURNEY-1-Love having a good time + need a little motivational cheerleader in your pocket? Check out my Instagram. There, you'll find a ton of free and empowering content to help you work through many different facets of personal development—including boundaries, your subconscious mind, perfectionism, and imposter syndrome.-2-Looking for a community to help you next-level your self-awareness and create unshakable self-confidence? Join the Creating Confidence Society. The Society is a safe space for women to come together, learn about themselves, build self love, heal, grow, and gain the confidence to go after what they truly want in life + business. It's a club for connection, inspiration, accountability, education, healing, and support—all the crucial ingredients to cultivating your most confident self. -3-Don’t even know where to begin but you know you’re ready for coaching and healing? Visit my website to discover which modalities will help you get out of your own way so you can pursue what matters most to you.Over the next few days, I'll be sharing more with you in your inbox to help ignite your transformation! In the meantime, join a safe space curated to foster these authentic connections and help you grow in your confidence. 👇
3.
Ron Swanson - Parks and Recreation
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“Lack of confidence: Acceptable at funerals and the Grand Canyon.”Your confidence is rock solid, just like Ron Swanson's, and you know how to stand your ground. You’re naturally skeptical and like to question systems, but your trust is unwavering—once it’s been earned. While you're a master at tackling challenges head-on and pointing out the truth, sometimes you need help getting in touch with yourself, acknowledging your struggles, and processing your emotions instead of shoving them down.Let’s play “Check the boxes!”Do you…☑️ Dwell on your mistakes☑️ Feel the urge to control everything and everyone☑️ Struggle to validate your own experience/reality☑️ Hide your emotions for the sake of others☑️ Push your feelings aside to get shit done☑️ Have a difficult time making important decisions☑️ Dismiss your previous successes☑️ Compare yourself to others☑️ Struggle with self worth☑️ Silence your intuitionYour Confidence Blindspot:✨ Emotional Avoidance ✨If you checked three or more of these boxes, chances are real good you doubt yourself, your emotions, and your intuition so much that it’s holding you back from taking that leap of faith towards your dreams. (If you never try, you'll never fail. And if you never fail, you'll never have to deal with processing those emotions, right?) Like Ron, that little voice inside your head is hungry for knowledge and forward progress, but sometimes it feels like you're the only person that you can really count on.Remember: It is safe to embrace your inner strength while simultaneously practicing vulnerability and exploring your softer side with others.Awareness is Everything...MEET YOUR COACHHey friend, I’m Megan Reed: your Life + Business Confidence Coach, EFT + NLP Practitioner, Clinical Hypnotherapist, and Reiki Energy Healer here to help you own your weird and unleash your main character energy. I'm the founder of the Creating Confidence® Society, and I'm on a mission to help you discover the magic of who you truly are so you can ditch your inner critic, get out of your own way, and unapologetically achieve your wildest dreams—whatever they may be.After a few years of growing my coaching business, I started to see some common themes that were sabotaging my students' and clients' personal and business growth. (AKA your confidence blindspot.) These blindspots were standing in between them and the life they were dreaming of.And they're in your way, too, aren't they?Clients come into my world with a deep knowing that they were meant to have more, do more, and be more, and it’s my mission to help guide you to your favorite version of yourself—one boundary, breakthrough, or transformation at a time.I'm your subconscious mind whisperer here to call you out on your bullshit.You're tired of living your life on autopilot, aren't you?IF YOU’RE LOOKING FOR HEALING, SUPPORT, AND ACCOUNTABILITY, YOU’RE IN THE RIGHT PLACE.I’ve got you.Let's Dig Deeper...THREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU ON YOUR JOURNEY-1-Love having a good time + need a little motivational cheerleader in your pocket? Check out my Instagram. There, you'll find a ton of free and empowering content to help you work through many different facets of personal development—including boundaries, your subconscious mind, perfectionism, and imposter syndrome.-2-Looking for a community to help you next-level your self-awareness and create unshakable self-confidence? Join the Creating Confidence Society. The Society is a safe space for women to come together, learn about themselves, build self love, heal, grow, and gain the confidence to go after what they truly want in life + business. It's a club for connection, inspiration, accountability, education, healing, and support—all the crucial ingredients to cultivating your most confident self. -3-Don’t even know where to begin but you know you’re ready for coaching and healing? Visit my website to discover which modalities will help you get out of your own way so you can pursue what matters most to you.Over the next few days, I'll be sharing more with you in your inbox to help ignite your transformation! In the meantime, join a community that can support you in your journey towards emotional growth and self-discovery. 👇
4.
Dwight Schrute - The Office
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“I am confident. To give you a reference point. I'm somewhere between a snake and a mongoose. And a panther.”Your confidence, much like Dwight Schrute's, is deeply rooted in your drive for success. (And you're freakin' good at what you do, aren't you?)Ever watchful, with hella attention to detail, you’re a highly cerebral person who likes to make observations and figure out ways to improve.You're not afraid to go the extra mile to achieve your goals, but sometimes you tie your self-worth to your accomplishments, so when things don't go as planned, it can feel like an attack on who you are as a person and send you into a downward spiral.Let’s play “Check the boxes!”Do you…☑️ Dwell on your mistakes☑️ Dismiss your previous successes☑️ Have a difficult time taking a day off☑️ Compare yourself to others☑️ Struggle with self worth☑️ Procrastinate tasks you're not good at☑️ Tend to overachieve + overdeliver☑️ Have trouble calling a project complete☑️ Struggle with feeling like you're not enough☑️ Feel exhausted, even on days you didn't "do" anythingYour Confidence Blindspot:✨ Perfectionism ✨If you checked three or more of these boxes, chances are real good that perfectionism has you pivoting, reorganizing, and redoing your to-do list over and over again. Conditioning can have you believing that perfectionism is a positive trait rather than a blindspot—cuz while you've more than proven your skills at delivering excellence—you’re starting to feel like you've bought yourself a one-way ticket on the Burnout Express.Like Dwight, that little voice inside your head has you believing that your worth is tied to your success and that being the best is simply the only option.Remember: You are worthy and valuable beyond your achievements. When was the last time you celebrated yourself for the progress you've made along the journey?Awareness is Everything...MEET YOUR COACHHey friend, I’m Megan Reed: your Life + Business Confidence Coach, EFT + NLP Practitioner, Clinical Hypnotherapist, and Reiki Energy Healer here to help you own your weird and unleash your main character energy. I'm the founder of the Creating Confidence® Society, and I'm on a mission to help you discover the magic of who you truly are so you can ditch your inner critic, get out of your own way, and unapologetically achieve your wildest dreams—whatever they may be.After a few years of growing my coaching business, I started to see some common themes that were sabotaging my students' and clients' personal and business growth. (AKA your confidence blindspot.) These blindspots were standing in between them and the life they were dreaming of.And they're in your way, too, aren't they?Clients come into my world with a deep knowing that they were meant to have more, do more, and be more, and it’s my mission to help guide you to your favorite version of yourself—one boundary, breakthrough, or transformation at a time.I'm your subconscious mind whisperer here to call you out on your bullshit.You're tired of living your life on autopilot, aren't you?IF YOU’RE LOOKING FOR HEALING, SUPPORT, AND ACCOUNTABILITY, YOU’RE IN THE RIGHT PLACE.I’ve got you.Let's Dig Deeper...THREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU ON YOUR JOURNEY-1-Love having a good time + need a little motivational cheerleader in your pocket? Check out my Instagram. There, you'll find a ton of free and empowering content to help you work through many different facets of personal development—including boundaries, your subconscious mind, perfectionism, and imposter syndrome.-2-Looking for a community to help you next-level your self-awareness and create unshakable self-confidence? Join the Creating Confidence Society. The Society is a safe space for women to come together, learn about themselves, build self love, heal, grow, and gain the confidence to go after what they truly want in life + business. It's a club for connection, inspiration, accountability, education, healing, and support—all the crucial ingredients to cultivating your most confident self. -3-Don’t even know where to begin but you know you’re ready for coaching and healing? Visit my website to discover which modalities will help you get out of your own way so you can pursue what matters most to you.Over the next few days, I'll be sharing more with you in your inbox to help ignite your transformation! In the meantime, learn how to nurture your confidence and celebrate yourself without relying solely on external markers of success. 👇
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Alexis Rose - Schitt's Creek
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"Love this confidence journey for you!"Just like Alexis Rose, you've got some mad talent and valuable know-how inside that playful and unique brain of yours.Sometimes you let your inner critic win, though, (Ew, David!) and may struggle with comparison, worrying about things you cannot control, or require external validation to feel worthy of your achievements. Sounds familiar, doesn't it?Let’s play “Check the boxes!”Do you…☑️ Crave validation from other people☑️ Feel like a fraud in your career☑️ Doubt yourself and your abilities☑️ Worry what other people are thinking about you☑️ Feel unworthy of recognition for achievements☑️ Hold yourself to the highest standards☑️ Tend to overachieve and overdeliver☑️ Compare yourself to others☑️ Constantly dwell on all the "what-ifs"Your Confidence Blindspot:✨ Imposter Syndrome ✨If you checked three or more of these boxes, chances are real good your inner critic is feeding some limiting beliefs into your mind, causing you to doubt yourself on the daily and question your worthiness of it all.Like Alexis, being a gifted Jill-of-All-Trades can leave you feeling some type of way and wondering what your real passion and purpose in life is.And for someone with such a seemingly strong sense of self, you can sometimes struggle with feeling out of place, which can all be tied back to your self-worth. (Or lack thereof.)Remember: It is safe to challenge the beliefs that are holding you back from honoring your achievements. You are loved and worthy of every single thing you desire, simply for existing and being yourself.Awareness is Everything...MEET YOUR COACHHey friend, I’m Megan Reed: your Life + Business Confidence Coach, EFT + NLP Practitioner, Clinical Hypnotherapist, and Reiki Energy Healer here to help you own your weird and unleash your main character energy. I'm the founder of the Creating Confidence® Society, and I'm on a mission to help you discover the magic of who you truly are so you can ditch your inner critic, get out of your own way, and unapologetically achieve your wildest dreams—whatever they may be.After a few years of growing my coaching business, I started to see some common themes that were sabotaging my students' and clients' personal and business growth. (AKA your confidence blindspot.) These blindspots were standing in between them and the life they were dreaming of.And they're in your way, too, aren't they?Clients come into my world with a deep knowing that they were meant to have more, do more, and be more, and it’s my mission to help guide you to your favorite version of yourself—one boundary, breakthrough, or transformation at a time.I'm your subconscious mind whisperer here to call you out on your bullshit.You're tired of living your life on autopilot, aren't you?IF YOU’RE LOOKING FOR HEALING, SUPPORT, AND ACCOUNTABILITY, YOU’RE IN THE RIGHT PLACE.I’ve got you.Let's Dig Deeper...THREE RESOURCES TO HELP YOU ON YOUR JOURNEY-1-Love having a good time + need a little motivational cheerleader in your pocket? Check out my Instagram. There, you'll find a ton of free and empowering content to help you work through many different facets of personal development—including boundaries, your subconscious mind, perfectionism, and imposter syndrome.-2-Looking for a community to help you next-level your self-awareness and create unshakable self-confidence? Join the Creating Confidence Society. The Society is a safe space for women to come together, learn about themselves, build self love, heal, grow, and gain the confidence to go after what they truly want in life + business. It's a club for connection, inspiration, accountability, education, healing, and support—all the crucial ingredients to cultivating your most confident self. -3-Don’t even know where to begin but you know you’re ready for coaching and healing? Visit my website to discover which modalities will help you get out of your own way so you can pursue what matters most to you.Over the next few days, I'll be sharing more with you in your inbox to help ignite your transformation! In the meantime, join a supportive community to help you build self love, trust, and celebrate yourself so you can show up authentically for YOU. 👇

What's Your Confidence Blindspot?

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